AUTHOR & BIBLE TEACHER
I HAD ENOUGH.
Enough compromising and settling in my standards to the point where I broke my celibacy walk for the 3rd time in 9 years.
I was at the top of my career, traveling the world, thriving personally, and relaunching my business, and yet, my love life sucked.
Since I decided I must have been asking too much and being too picky, I lowered my standards and did what I KNEW in my heart was the wrong thing.
I gave my heart to men who were not financially where I needed them to be. They were not physically what I fully desired. They were not as driven and motivated as I would prefer. Most importantly, they were not spiritually mature but claimed to know Jesus as Lord and Savior.
I had been through a similar season in 2015 when I broke my 6-year celibacy walk for my male best friend and ended up pregnant and devastated from a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship. After much healing and recuperation, I thought I was ready to get back on the dating scene in late 2017.
Yet, although my heart was whole,
MY DISCERNMENT WAS OFF AND I LISTENED TO THE WRONG VOICES WHICH LED ME TO GET INVOLVED WITH THE WRONG TYPE OF MEN.
My decisions were not based on purpose and God’s will for my life, but rather they were based on what I wanted and what everyone around me was saying I needed to do to land a husband.
Meanwhile, I had worked with single women since 2010 ministering and coaching them in living a single & satisfied life and teaching them how to reach personal and professional goals while serving God. However,
I WAS NOT TOTALLY OBEDIENT TO THE CALL OF GOD ON MY LIFE. I WAS NOT FULLY OPERATING IN MY SPIRITUAL GIFTS. I PUSHED MY CALLING ASIDE BECAUSE I DIDN’T THINK IT WAS GOOD ENOUGH.
I knew I needed to stop dating beneath my standards AND step fully into my life’s purpose…
So once I had my heart broken by a man I compromised almost every standard I had to be with, I made two significant decisions which I never turned back from:
I decided to never lower my standards, compromise on my values or make excuses for a man again. I chose to do a deep-focused study, learn and live by biblical truths of what God clearly states in his Word is his will for love relationships and godly marriage. I began to date and build friendships with quality men of God ONLY and derived great contentment from purposeful living and strong faith in seasons where I was not dating anyone at all.
I decided to stop disobeying God, procrastinating in my calling, and GO ALL IN with my life’s purpose. I knew God wanted me to write books, so I wrote and self-published a total of 11 books in 3 short years. I also began to surround myself with other women of impeccable faith to learn, understand and serve with greater impact women who love God and desire marriage.
These are the two decisions that drastically changed my life.
Ever since then,
My life has been filled with contentment, satisfaction, faith, and PURPOSE!
The desire for marriage is not all-consuming or even annoying or disheartening. I have learned to balance hope and faith with joyful living and life purpose maximization to:
BECOME A PROLIFIC CHRISTIAN NON-FICTION WRITER
BUILD A GLOBAL COMMUNITY OF LIKE-MINDED WOMEN OF FAITH
GROW A LUXURY RETREAT AND LIFE COACHING COMPANY THAT SERVES WOMEN WITH EXCEPTIONAL TASTE AND HIGH STANDARDS
TEACH UN-COMPROMISED BIBLICAL TRUTHS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS, LOVE, AND DATING
HELP WOMEN AROUND THE WORLD WRITE AND SELF-PUBLISH THEIR FIRST BOOK
FEARLESSLY TEACH WOMEN TO REMAIN IN FAITH FOR THE HUSBAND THEY DESIRE
Experience & Certifications
I have worked with women in both secular and non-secular arenas for over 11 years as a minister, coach, teacher, and mentor. I have served as a leader in the ministry of my local church, and community (state-wide and globally), and as a teacher & mentor in upper management in my government career of 20 years.
Additionally, I graduated from the Greater Works School of Ministry in 2012, acquired a degree in Business Marketing in 2010, and received certification as a Personal & Executive Life Coach in 2014. I am currently pursuing my Master's in Divinity with a concentration in biblical languages.
As a self-publishing guru, I have expertly brought eleven books to print, both hard copy editions, and comprehensive digital coaching guides. These books generate 4-figures of income each month in my business consistently.
When you combine my:
You will not find another more qualified servant of God to help you during this very special season of your life!